Sunday, May 10, 2015

Time Warp

The last week of April I was having a conversation with a friend.  I said something like this "My month of March looked so clear at the beginning, but it filled up to the point of craziness."  I didn't think anything of it, but that night in my prayer, I just started giggling.  March??  It was the end of April!  What was I saying??  In so many ways I still feel like I haven't experienced January and February of this year yet either.  Time has just become so warped.  Now here we are almost the middle of May and I often feel bewildered about what time it is, what day it is, but mostly what month it is.  With that said, I'm going to try to get a few very dated posts finished up. I fully recognize they are dated, but I want the information recorded here for the kids.  


In the same vein, Caleb has been out almost a year and I'm astounded it has been that long already.  We got to talk to him on Saturday and that was great.  He's doing well.  He's serving in the office right now as the referral coordinator/recorder and loving spending so much time with President and Sister Lovell.  He is getting a new mission president at the end of June so he doesn't know how long he'll be there.  He loves it, but is anxious to get back to doing real missionary work.  Here are a few pictures from our call:
The message box on the screen was us communicating with Cache trying to get joined in to our conversation.  We finally got him on and that was great!

Family Photos

Silly, I know.  But one of my biggest issues with the overlap of my missionaries was family pictures.  I needed to send some with Caleb that didn't have Greta looking like a toddler.  Yet, I didn't want to get new pictures and not hang them on my wall. . .  but I didn't want family pictures hanging on my wall without Cache in them.  So we did family pictures twice this year.  Only one person complained about it and even that, in the end, didn't kill him.  So life is good.   And we just have two versions of family pictures for the year.  We got lots of cute ones, so I was very happy.  Here are a few:



Just realized I duplicated one picture in the collages. And I resized some of them wrong so there is pixielation...Oops! 
And now about a year later, none of them adorn my wall.  Maybe some day...  I'm hoping to escape the time warp fairly soon.

Greta

My sweet little shadow started kindergarten.  Sad.  Yet happy too.  She is LOVING kindergarten and is ready for school everyday (even wearing her backpack) before Tessa is ready--and Greta's school starts an hour and 15 minutes later than Tessa's.  Even a few months into it, she is still so excited to go every single day.  She told me all summer that she wouldn't miss me, but she would give me a kiss goodbye every day because I would need it because I would miss her.  She was right.  It's sad to send her to school.


This sweet girl has many people asking to her home.  Even complete strangers like dance teacher's sisters, techs at the eye doctor and hair stylists want her.  A cute story from a few years ago that her dance teacher told me last spring.  It was picture day at dance class and Miss Mindee's sister was there to take photos.  At one point in the session, they had the girls posed for the dance just waiting for the music to begin.  However, they could't get the music to play.  It took them a few minutes during which all of the three year olds had begun to run around and get a bit crazy.  They were both huddled by the sound equipment trying to work it out and then finally they got it and they both turned around to get the girls back into position and there was Greta still poised and ready to go.  It melted both of them.  It is so typical of her. So sweet.

Last spring at a routine eye appointment they caught her little eye wandering a bit.  It was causing her vision to not be equal and compromised her depth perception (none of which, I noticed. . .).  The remedy was to patch one hour a day.  She was super diligent about it and would often wear it well beyond an hour because she did not want to have to wear a patch to kindergarten.  At her follow up appointment for that issue, she had improved greatly, but still was recommended to patch to strengthen her weak eye.  Also at that appointment, she was diagnosed with Fourth Nerve Palsy.  Basically it is a weakened nerve that as it continues to get weaker will cause her to have little control over her eye so it will wander up.  We could start see this occur within the year, but could also take a decade or so to manifest itself enough to warrant intervention.  The intervention is prism glasses and then when it gets bad enough, a surgery in which they will weaken her other three nerves in order to even them out.  Even though I could get myself all worked up about aspects of this (teasing kids, surgeries going wrong, long term vision etc.), I'm really just thankful to live in a day and age when she can get vision help.  A half a century earlier, she would be blind by now and having a much more difficult life.  (Update 5-10-15:  She was such a trooper wearing her eye patches that as of our last check up, she had strengthened her weak eye enough that she doesn't have to patch for the time being.  In fact, her last appointment, her weak eye was seeing stronger than her good eye.  BTW, This is not related to the Fourth Nerve Palsy, that is a completely separate condition.)

Greta was the Kindergarten of the Week!  She was thrilled especially since she got a package of Skittles.  (She's got quite the sweet tooth!  I could bribe her to do almost anything with a treat.)

The dinner/breakfast table goes something like this:  
Tom:  Chandler (or anyone else), will you please say the prayer?
Instantly after that invitation is extended, Greta starts the prayer. Every meal, every day for weeks (now months).  The rest of us might just forget how to pray! 

She is such a sweet and caring girl.  One time we were at my mom's house and peeling potatoes and struggling a bit with the potato peeler.  She whispered to me, "Grandma needs a new potato peeler, but we won't tell her that because it would make her feel bad."

She LOVES to-do lists!!  I'm always amazed at how much she loves to check off things.  I love that she loves to accomplish things and see what she needs to do written out on a list.  

Greta is just such a delight!

Tessa

This little girl is growing up and it is so fun to see.  I'm sad the little girl is leaving, but since she was a very draining young girl, a little more maturity has been very welcome.  She is a delight!

The girls write in journals every night (they dictate to us).  On occasion, a few gems are written.  Here are a few of Tessa's:

4-15-13:  Today I was nice to Greta and I love Greta and flowers and I love hearts and I love Greta's Pandy bear and Beary and Sheepily and I love Greta's flip flops, but most importantly, I love Greta!!

5-29-13:  I'll scream and shout and let it all out!!!!  Today we are moving classrooms!

6-14-13:  I am sleeping on the top bunk. I have a wiggly jiggly wiggly tooth.  I am glad it is not my sweet tooth.

9-13-13:  Today I had Fun Friday and it was so freaking fun the first time!  I will love it better next time, maybe.

10-4-13:  Today I got my new pet named. . . .I haven't named her yet.  I went to school and I played with Emma.  (Not sure what that was about because we don't have a pet!)

10-6-13:  Dear readers.  This is what I did today.  Today was Caleb's birthday.  Yesterday and today I watched conference and colored in my new coloring book.  Close quote.  What does close quote mean?  (She was listening to parts of conference at least!)

12-3-13:  Coconut.  I want coconut.  I love coconuts!! I love hot chocolate too.  There's a scary bird up there.  The end.

12-4-13:  When you are bigger you can swallow bigger pieces of carrot because your neck is bigger.

1-12-14:  (sung to the Farmer in the Dell)
Today I went to church.Today I went to church.   Heigh Ho the Derry-O! Today I went to church!

I learned about the gospel. I learned about the gospel. Heigh Ho the Derry-O! I learned about the gospel!

I got a little sucker. I got a little sucker. Heigh Ho the Derry-O! I got a little sucker.

I made a maze. I made a maze. Heigh Ho the Derry-O! I made a maze.

I got a sticker. I got a sticker. Heigh Ho the Derry-O! I got a sticker.

I went home. I went home. Heigh Ho the Derry-O! I went home.

And then I ate dinner. And then I ate dinner. Heigh Ho the Derry-O! And then I ate dinner.

The dinner stands alone. The dinner stands alone. Heigh Ho the Derry-O! The dinner stands alone!


5-9-14:  Greta has to wear eye patches now.  She is very brave.  I don't think I could be that brave.  She is a great sister.

5-18-14:  (singing) I'm so glad we have Father's Day.  Glad as I can be!  Clap my hands and shout for joy and do a happy dance.  Put my arms around his neck when we have Father's day!  Hug him when it's Father's day and give him a great big kiss too!

6-20-14  Today it was Temple Day.  And it was fun.  We touched the temple and we took pictures by it.  It made me feel happy.  I had my doll with me.  I want to make covenants there someday.

7-26-14:  Peek-a-boo.  Hello.  I had an ice cream and I got it from Macey's and I got new school clothes. And I have 9 clothes, but I still want 13 more.  And then I would have 22 school clothes and then I won't need to whine about school clothes.

8-23-14:  We went to the Ogden temple open house.  I felt the Spirit in the Tabernacle while watching the movie.  I couldn't stop smiling.  Then we went out for Japanese food.  I loved the sushi, tofu and shrimp tempura!!!!!

9-6-14:  We went to Daddy Daughter camp out last night and it was fun because I like Daddy Daughter Camp outs 'cause they are totally awesome.  Boys were there but not from our ward and one boy said 'camping is only for boys'.  That's weird.

Tessa also started piano lessons in January (2014).  She LOVES it!!!  Our cute and delightful neighbor is her teacher so it is such a win win situation.  Tessa really works hard for her and it is super duper convenient.  She loves music so this is so good for her (even on the days she doesn't think so!).

And she started 2nd grade!  I'm not sure how that happened, but here we are and it's been great.  She's got another great neighbor for her teacher who is working magic on her.  We are totally impressed (and delighted) with what Mrs. Cummings is getting out of her.



Tuesday, May 5, 2015

Jerry and Carolyn's 50th Anniversary

A few weekends ago we celebrated Jerry and Carolyn's 50th wedding anniversary.  They were married in June, but this was a day we most of us could all get together.  Their kids knew they wouldn't like a large formal gathering so they planned a day where everyone who was able could attend the temple.  We were able to do endowments, sealings and baptisms.  Afterward, we went to a church and had a meal and a program.

There is just so much love in this family!  I told Tom afterwards that I wanted to be just like Jerry and Carolyn!  They have been such remarkable influences in all that they have done that it is hard to express the value of their example.  I'm so happy to be part of this family and to be married to someone raised by these two!  I'm blessed every day because of them.






Photos by Jim Jackson

Sunday, May 3, 2015

Teacher Appreciation

I've missed a few years of door decorating for teacher appreciation week.  And this year I decided that life was always going to be busy and I just needed to figure out a way to make it work.  The theme was "Hats off to you".  That was challenging for my mind.  I just couldn't figure out how to make something around hats work, without saying 'hats off to you'.  So I spent a few weeks mulling things over and doing searches for many combinations of ideas to try to get something to click.  We came up with an idea for Tessa's focusing on the many different hats teachers wear.

Greta's however was so hard to figure out because she gave me an extra requirement:  It HAD to have a panda on it.  There are many more people out there smarter than me who could have come up with something better and faster, but it had me stumped all the way to last Monday night (doors had to be hung on Friday).  Normally, that might have been enough time, but I had a crammed packed week.

On Tuesday I worked hard to carve out time to project images for Greta's design up on a poster paper. But it didn't happen.  Late that night, Tom recognized my overwhelming situation and jumped in to help me.  As he rolled out the paper to start projecting the images, we realized the paper was far too short.  Delay.

On Wednesday, I procured more paper and again worked to find a small space of time to start tracing.  Early evening gave me a little spot and I got to work.  Just after I finished the lettering, the projector bulb burned out.  I tried to find a place locally who might have such a thing, but we are talking an overhead projector....  At that point, I began to recognize what was happening.  I had an important meeting on Thursday evening where I was presenting and opposition was being permitted to see if I would be distracted and allow myself to be overwhelmed and unable to have the help of the spirit like I desperately needed.  I immediately knelt down and sought for help for all that was on my plate. The solution that came for the posters was to text my friend to see if the library had an overhead projector.  They did, so that solved that.

Thursday morning I went to get my hair cut first thing (that took forever!).  That only left a little window of time to get the images traced before I had to pick Greta up from kindergarten.  I got Greta's finished and put Tessa's teacher's up and the library's overhead projector bulb burned out.  Really.  But since I was aware of what was happening, I breezed through that and chuckled at the comical chain of hang ups with this silly project.  Somehow in about 28 hours, I would be able to pull off Tessa's without the help of projected lettering, plus the coloring and line work on Greta's.  I was confident that somehow it would happen.

Friday morning was quite free other than an orthodontist appointment for Chandler (that too extraordinarily long...) but I still felt good about the amount of time I had.  I whipped Greta's out in a couple of hours.  Then came time for Tessa's.  And just when I needed it, an idea came to do a chalk board look with hers.  Then all I had to do was add the phone I had designed and printed as a poster earlier in the week.  Thankfully that all whipped out in about 20 minutes.  (I'll be remembering that method for other years for sure!) I'm truly thankful for divine help in everyday tasks and inconsequential things such as teacher's door decorations!

I really need to not be lazy and use another camera besides the one on my phone.  Blurry city!

This idea came from a teacher friend, Amy, a couple of decades ago.  She had done a bulletin board with this title.  In case you can't read it, The pigeon is going to wear his top hat to drive the bus because "they let pigeon's in top hats drive buses."  Gollie (from Bink and Gollie series) got the panda hat.  She will wear her's to China if Bink will go with her.  They may have a panda bonanza while there.  Scaredy Squirrel will wear his hat to the unknown, as long as there are no killer bees, germs or sharks.  Mrs. Walker will wear her hat to teach kindergarten because she gets to influence lives for good.  

In case you can't read it:  iPhone Mrs. Cummings for everything.  She has an app (hat) for that!


We all thought of many types of hats teachers wear in a day and made app images for them.  Tessa helped me with this quite a bit.  She loves the computer work.  Click to more detail.

Love these girls and I'm glad I took an opportunity to make them really happy.