Tuesday, December 16, 2008

Christmas Day Surprises

{sorry this is so long with very bad and few pictures}

I grew up with a Christmas tradition that I can't replicate. It started out (I think) as a plan to keep us kids in bed a little longer on Christmas morning and blossomed into a very big deal. Every year my dad set a 'Christmas Trap'. They ranged in the early years from a simple fish line strung across the doorway connected to some pots and pans to complex mechanical devices that told us to get back to bed or that lit up or gave us a little scare or we faced false walls, decoys etc. . . . As kids we spent hours planning ways to get through the traps. We planned ways to communicate between bedrooms, stashed scissors, wire cutters, flashlights, knives etc. in our bedrooms so that we would be able to get passed or disarm whatever got in our way. In many ways the traps were more anticipated (and remembered) than the presents we gave or received. I wish I had some pictures to share, but I made an album last year for my dad about the traps and don't have any pictures left. So you'll just have to use your imaginations.

While we lived in Preston, we often spent Christmas Eve night with my parents so the boys got a few experiences with the traps. When we moved away, I knew we couldn't continue the traps because we're not nearly as resourceful or smart as my dad. But I wanted a fun, but doable for us, Christmas tradition. So Tom and I have come up with a Christmas Day surprises tradition. What does this mean? Who knows. . . but each year we try to make things just a little different and crazy. I'll share a few things we've done thus far to give you an idea.

First off, I have to note that we came across a *wonderful* tradition for us as parents, the kids have grown to like it, but that isn't to say it was well accepted at first. . .but at 8:30 on Christmas Eve, the kids are sent to bed in our room. They get the PlayStation, books, snacks and a cell phone. They are NOT to come out on any condition (but they don't need to since they have access to a bathroom, food, phone and fun.) That way we can get to work on all of our stuff at an early hour. I tell you, this idea has been genius for our family. I will ever thank Whitney Barrett for sharing their family tradition with me. Anyway, back to the Christmas Day Surprises. . .

We started out small the first year we did it. . . it was a search and find type of thing for one of their gifts. They each got numerous small gifts for their collections--Cache dice, Caleb marbles (Chan just got a small Lego set) that were all wrapped individually in the same paper and they had to hunt all over the house until they found all 50 or so items before they could open them. It ended up taking quite a bit of time and they had a lot of fun with it.

The next year Christmas was on a Sunday so we didn't plan something long and extensive. That year we got a ping pong table that we set up downstairs then we wrapped a lot of ping pong balls in shimmery paper and tied them with curly ribbon on the ends to make them look like candy. Then we hung them from the ceiling. Two of the balls were orange and at the end of the Christmas unwrapping that day we started opening ping pong balls one at a time. Whoever got the orange balls had to clean up. Caleb and Tom were the (un?)lucky finders. We sent Caleb downstairs with a large load of things to put away and he was the one to discover the ping pong table. (the bragging rights from the find made the cleaning up woes suddenly okay!)

The next year we hid their stockings, but left each boy a different color of yarn strung ALL OVER the house that they had to wind up to find their stocking. This was one of their favorites. (the whole house looked this tangled!)

Last year we got a little more involved with it. . . first off, the boys woke up to no presents under the tree, the old Christmas stockings were the only things under the tree, with nothing in them but a very large nail (like 5" long) with a poem about Christ's atonement. After a little devotional, they each got an envelope. In the envelope was a paper with bunch of numbers on them. Small dot stickers were stuck all over the main living area of the house. They had to collect the small dot stickers of their color to put on the numbers which created a dot to dot picture of the place where they would find a clue as to where their stocking was. (one picture made a drawing of the ceiling fan). Once they found their stockings, they had to find the presents. They were all stashed in the bathtub. After hauling them back under the tree we started the unwrapping festivities as usual.

This year we have gone even crazier, but I'm not going to say what we are doing in case I've got some blog reading children. I'll post about it after Christmas.

What are your traditions? I love to hear about what other people do. I was talking to our neighbors and it is interesting how vastly different everyone does Christmas morning. Please share!

6 comments:

This Idaho Girl said...

I have nothing genius to share, although I do remember every year as a child getting a visit from Santa on Christmas Eve. Incidentally, it was our neighbor, and one year he brought along his wife, dressed as a giant panda. I'm still puzzled about that. I love your traditions, especially the memory of your dad's Christmas traps. I also have to share something my family still repeats (courtesy of a talk your dad once gave in my ward) today. Scouting without the outing is just SC.

Katie and Dennis said...

Yes, the traps were so much fun. I'm a bit envious that you got so many extra years there. I think Dad got the idea of traps from Uncle Don Golightly.

Remember the Christmas eve that all of us were home after some of us were married and we all got up in the middle of the night because we couldn't sleep? I don't remember what trap we had to thwart that year. But it is a fond memory of mine.

We are pretty traditional around here. But a couple of times we have opened up family gifts, eaten breakfast and then opened up Santa gifts (or vice versa). I think that was an idea I actually got from you. I shall have to be thinking about something doable for us since presents for 6 kids somewhere other than the living room makes me want to go to sleep (meaning it sounds like too much extra work for an already-swamped mother.)

Sorry I'm so long winded tonight. I can't wait to hear about your big plans after they happen! Good luck!

Oh, just one more thing (I guess I could call you or email you but while I'm here...) we had our first ever--perhaps I should say first annual--indoor snow ball fight tonight. It was so much fun! Watch Brandon's blog because he wants to post some of the pictures. Thanks for the ideas!

Kendi said...

I am totally going to copy you...if Chris will go for it! I love your idea of the string throughout the house! I'm wondering, do the kids sleep in your room Christmas Eve? One big slumber party?

Darcee said...

Yes, Kendi, they all sleep in our room the whole night. . .they can't come out until 5:00am whether they decide to ever go to sleep or not. We love it!

Katie, Glad you did the snowball fight. It is so easy and the kids love it no matter what age.

Thanks for the scouting laugh, Christina. . .never heard that from my dad before!

Unknown said...

The most standing tradition in our family is our letters to the Savior. We write them the first FHE in December. In the letter we tell one thing we are going to give Him for Christmas that year. On Christmas morning after an opening prayer, the first gift we open is our gift to the Savior. We read our letters and tell what we have done (and are doing) in our efforts to surrender our lives to Him.

We're also done a few crazy things in memory of Dad's traps but it's not always a given--I often come up with something crazy at the last minute so David has learned to expect a change from the "norm", I think! It's wonderful that you are carrying on--and adding to--the "Dad" tradition.

Anonymous said...

You guys are amazing! We just try to get through the day...I'm sounding like quite the slacker, huh?